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How to Know If You’re Ready to Start a Relationship Post-Divorce

Posted by The Firm | Oct 22, 2020 | 0 Comments

Starting a new relationship after divorce isn't the same for everyone. For some, it doesn't take long before they're ready to get back out there into the dating world, while for others, getting over the trauma they've experienced can take months or even years.

Needless to say, there are many variables involved in dating post-divorce. Figuring out when it's the right time for you to pursue a new relationship and put yourself out there isn't going to be easy. 

Let's take a look at some signs that can show you if you're ready to start dating:

1.  You Aren't Trying To Replace Your Ex

It's normal for you to feel a sense of emptiness after separating from your partner, but the last thing you should do is look for someone only to fill that void in your life. There's no need to rush into a new relationship just to get over your spouse. 

Doing so will not only be unfair to your potential partner, but it will also take a toll on your mental health. You need to realize that your divorce has changed you and you need to set realistic expectations for your new partner, what's important to you in a relationship, and what characteristics don't matter to you anymore.

If you're genuinely curious about new people that may come into your life and aren't trying to compare them to your ex, it's a sign you're ready to step back into the dating world and explore new possibilities. 

2.  You Have the Right Intentions

A huge part of knowing yourself is about being aware of your intentions. You need to get in tune with yourself and understand your needs before getting into a new relationship. Figure out what you're looking for and ask yourself the following questions:

  • Are you looking for someone who'll take care of you or someone to share your life with?
  • Are you afraid of being alone?
  • Do you feel self-confident enough to open up to someone new?
  • Have you figured out what your relationship deal-breakers are?

If you're not sure about what you want from your future partners, you won't be able to engage in a healthy relationship with them and truly give them a chance to get to know who you are beneath the surface. 

3.  You Aren't Afraid of Being Vulnerable

If you're still processing the trauma you felt during and after separation, you may not be willing to open up and be vulnerable with someone new for fear of getting hurt again. You shouldn't rush into a relationship without considering what you have to offer to the other person.

To truly give dating a chance, you need to learn how to manage your emotions and accept your reality before you can welcome someone else into your life. If you're open to being your true self in a new relationship, it's a sign you're ready to start a new chapter in your life and find ways to be happy again. 

Bottom Line

Starting your first serious relationship after divorceis going to be riddled with obstacles and uncertainty. You need to make sure you know what you're looking for, you're genuinely curious, and you're willing to invest the time and effort required to sustain a new relationship.

If you're looking for a divorce attorney in Atlanta, call us at (404) 963-9452 to schedule a consultation. Let us provide you with the legal support you need so you can focus on recovering and getting your life back on track. 

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